3-Card Tarot: Face a Difficult Question

Please do a three-card tarot reading for me.

Spread theme: the message I need to hear now, and how I can act.

Three-card meanings:
1. First card: the message I don't want to hear but need to hear now
2. Second card: the action I should consider taking based on the first card
3. Third card: the wisdom or growth I may gain if I face this message seriously

Combined with each card's symbolism, give: each card's core message, the reality I need to face, suggested action, and a final summary of the common reminder of the three cards.

Answer in a gentle but honest, intuitive, self-reflection-friendly tone.